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On Friday June 11, 2021, I lost the love of my life, Eileen Belanger. She was an exceptional person who seemed to light up the whole room with her presence. She was the kindest, most loving person I have ever encountered.
We began out married life 37 years ago, and it has been a pleasure the whole time. We built out house with our own hands and managed to do it without a single harsh word. In fact, there were virtually no harsh words for the entire 37 years of marriage and the total of 40 years we were together.
She was a manager at the Environmental Protection Agency and dedicated to environmental causes. She loved animals and for all of our marriage there have been cats roaming our house. After retiring from EPA in 1995, she worked as a tax preparer for H&R Block, where she taught advanced taxes. Then she retired yet again, this time to participate in Democratic politics. She was at least partly responsible for the Democratic sweep of Delaware County, PA Council.
Later in life we traveled with my brother Jay and a few other couples. We had a wonderful time on cruises to the Panama Canal, the Bay of Fundy, Spain, France, London, Alaska and a trip to the Rose Parade. Eileen was always up for a great time.
I'll miss her terribly. A great deal of my life will be less interesting and fun now, but I have 40 years of wonderful memories to cherish. I don't know how I ever got to marry such a wonderful wife and life partner. I feel truly blessed for the time we had together.
Eileen and I met at the EPA Philadelphia office. A bit more detail: I asked Eileen out on the day I was divorced from my ex-wife. My ex and I had lived together amicably until the divorce was final, but on the first day of "independence" I wanted to begin a new social life.
Well, that was that. I still remember how good it felt to hold her in my arms. She was so special that we quickly became permanent, and married a couple months after we moved into our house. I couldn't have hoped for a happier marriage.
So now a year and a half after Eileen's passing, things are better. I'm seeing Lynne Elliott. She and her husband were long term friends of Eileen and mine. Lynne's husband passed away about 5 years ago, and the friendship with Eileen and me continued. When she was in hospice, Eileen gave me some not-so-subtle hints who I should see after her passing. She was always thinking of me.